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Do not be conformed to this world
( follow the ways of the world)
But be transformed
(take on a new physical appearance)
By the renewing of your mind.
Romans12:2
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Lost 70.4 Lbs

Christian Intimacy in Marriages

The Devil is seeking to destroy you
What better place to destroy
Than by attacking your marriage.
"Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in Heaven" Mathew 18:19

One of the most powerful things in life is a strong christian marriage. Where a husband and wife stand together in agreement, the spiritual power of agreement awarded in the scripture above is immense and can not be easily defeated.

This is the reason why satan loves to attack christian marriages and what better place to attack than the christian bed! Satan hates it when christians stand united and in agreement - even more so when it is man and wife.

It is essential that both Husband and Wife guard zealously over their intimacy so that satan has no gap with which to get in and start to wreak havoc on your marriage. Unfortunately, this is one place in the marriage that is often left unguarded and where satan loves to create his path of destruction.

Christian Sex

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God created sex to be exciting and stimulating. Humans are the only species on earth that God gave sex to not only for reproduction, but for recreation as well. It is sad that often this is the area most lacking in a christian relationship.

In my years of christian counselling I was involved in a fair deal of marriage counselling as well. Mostly the marriage problems stemmed down to a lack of intimacy in the bed.

Problems affecting the Christian bed.


Lack of visual stimulation.


One particular couple that I counselled did not try to conceal the problamatic bedroom issues and when asked what was wrong in the marriage the husband blurted out, "I can't be sexually attracted to a fat wife - she was thin when I married her but she has become a fat slob."

Now this may have been rather blunt and straight forward, but it did hit the nail right on the head. The lady had increased in size over the past years while the man had maintained his thin and healthy figure.

In recent worldly research as to why so many marriages were becoming "No Sex Marriages" one of the prime facts stated by men were that their wives had become fat and they were no longer sexually attracted to them.

If you want to keep your marriage on tracks, then you need to stay visually appealling to your partner.  

In the example above, the lady concerned stated clearly that this is the way she had become and her husband has married her for better or worse so he had to learn to accept her as being fat. They moved out of the area and about a year later they divorced after the husband started to engage in extra marital affairs.

Your visual appearance is important not only to your health, but also to maintaining a healthy sex life between you and your partner. If your weight has increased then make an effort to start to control your weight and become more visually appealing to your partner again.

Take some time to go out and buy some exciting sexy lingerie and make your bedroom and exciting place to be - not an obligation.

Weight Loss God's Way.

Lack of excitement.

God gave us sex as a form of recreation between man and wife. It is also the ultimate bonding factor in any marriage.

"And the two will become one flesh" - this bonding of the flesh is not as a result of placing a ring on your finger, or even from taking marriage vows, but is produced from the act of sex in the marriage. Sex forms a soul tie between the two partners. This is the main reason why sex before marriage is frowned upon by God.

In most marriages, sex can become an activity that you no longer have the time for. As a result of your hectic lifestyle the bedroom  gets neglected and sadly the bond between husband and wife can start to deteriate. Of course this is often blamed on other factors such as stress and a busy lifestyle, but the real underlying cause is not stress or anything else but a lack of excitement in the bedroom.

It is amazing that these "busy lifestyles" have no time for sex but plenty of time for golf or other exciting sports!

You need to start to actively persue a good and exciting sex life. Start to plan "sexual" evenings with your partner where you send the kids off to baby sitters, go out for supper and a show and come back and enjoy a great evening in bed together as well.

Get rid of some of your inhibitions regarding sex. Remember that God gave it as recreation to be enjoyed, not a duty that you have to endure. If you find something exciting, discuss it with your partner and go for it, but with the same mind if you do not enjoy something or find something disgusting then do not allow yourself to be drawn into it.

Guard Yourself Against The devil.

You need to be the best for your parter. Look back on your married life and do a quick then and now comparison. Then is how your partner found you to be attractive enough to be prepared to marry you.

Would your partner still be attracted to you enough to marry you as you are today?


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